Putting women on a pedestal kills dating success. Early days, getting laid big deal—bang girl, self-pat special accomplishment. Friends same. Older, more sex, less fuss. Reasons many, but no coincidence: more pedestal pussy, less got. Dating truth: pedestal signals neediness, repels. Outcome independence attracts. Women sense desperation vibe. Grind removes shine; casual confidence pulls. Experience flips script.

Hard fake not caring about women. Must want her—you won’t chase unwanted. Barely care if no get. Pedestal men chase; equals play. Dating frame: she qualifies you, not reverse. Neediness leaks beta. Abundance mindset: options exist. Rejection? Next. Want fuels action; attachment kills close. Balance rare, powerful. Women test indifference. Pass, win. Fail, friendzone. Vibe sells.

Awkward stage necessary: care hard, try get laid till routine. Slow process: more sex, less effort needed. Secret partly time—can’t teach, bypass. Rest hard work: approaches, rejections, calibrations. Dating evolution: newbie thirst to vet indifference. Volume desensitizes pedestal. Practice forges nonchalance. Early fails teach; persistence pays. Time tempers need. Grind creates alpha calm. Patience key.

Pedestal off, abundance on—sex flows easier. Youth chases frantic; experience strolls casual. Dating mastery: internal game shifts. Want drives hunt; apathy shrugs misses. Awkward phase inevitable bootcamp. Emerge: effortless closes. Time irreplaceable teacher. Hard work accelerator. Result: women chase you. No shortcuts. Embrace grind, drop pedestal. Relationships thrive equality. Game levels up.